So I’ve been
thinking a lot lately about what it means to be graceful. When I think of being graceful, I tend to
think of something like a ballerina performance. More specifically, I think of my 5-year-old
daughter dancing like a ballerina in the living room while I’m playing music
from our stereo or my guitar. She’ll
start dancing, twirling, plie’ing, jete’ing, and at the end, a curtsy. All I can do is smile, clap, and tell her how
wonderful it was. Then, she shoots me a
huge smile and comes running up to me to dig her face in my lap as her
bashfulness starts to come out.
I think that we
can all agree that Jesus loves us and He also gave Himself up for us. During His 3 years of ministry Jesus didn’t
just show us what grace looked like, He WAS grace.
Every miracle
Every
conversation
Every sermon
He was showing
what grace looks like. Even when He went
into the Temple and became angered towards the selling of things, He showed them
grace. You have to remember, this is the
guy that caused the creation of the world by His efforts alone. The authority and power that He has is
overwhelming to our minds and hearts.
With just a few words, He could have ended what was happening in the
Temple.
But He didn’t.
He chose to use
those moments to teach us. He chose to
show them AND us grace.
To me, Jesus
wasn’t just showing us what grace looked like.
He IS grace. He is the
definition of what grace is. Once we
acknowledge and accept Him (faith), He comes into our lives, literally. That is when we become covered in His love
and grace. When He comes into our lives
we are saved.
This is the grace
of God.
If Jesus is
grace, then Ephesians 5:1-2 should bring a whole different meaning to how we
approach people. Here’s what it says:
“Be imitators of
God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as
Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice
to God.”
Paul is telling
us to imitate God in the way our children imitate our actions. In verse 2, Paul shows us what that looks
like. If Jesus is grace and Jesus is also God and we also have Ephesians 5:1-2
telling us to be imitators of God, then we should look like grace, right?
I don’t mean that
we should drop everything, find a robe, grow out a beard, and walk around the
world in sandals (if God is calling you to that, more power to you), what I’m
saying is, that our lives should resemble Jesus.
1 John 4:12 says,
“No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his
love is made complete in us.”
With that said,
grace should be pouring out of our lives and people should be able to see grace
through us. For some people, the grace
they see in us is the only way they will ever see God. To them, we are Jesus. 1 John 4:17 shares this idea, “In this way,
love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of
judgment, because in this world we are like him.”
WE
ARE
LIKE
HIM.
When we start to
look like Jesus we will naturally start caring for people the way He did. Grace doesn’t give up on people. Grace is there for people when they don’t
deserve it. Grace forgives over and over
and over and over.
This world that
we live in doesn’t really understand grace and that’s because grace doesn’t
follow the typical rules of society.
That’s why Jesus didn’t “fit in” with the world. That’s why the story of Jesus looks messy at
times.
Grace is messy. Grace is simple, but we make it messy.
If you’re a
believer, God is calling you to be like grace to the world. How that looks is different for every person,
but one thing you can count on is that if you show grace to this world, your
children will see that and imitate that.
After all, isn’t
that the job of a parent?
“Start children
off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn
from it” –Proverbs 22:6
So may you be the
grace of God to those who desperately need it.
Including our
children.